23.11.10

Men - The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

Hello there readers. New readers, rather :)

I think I've already been introduced, yeah, so I'm just going to start with saying thank you to the original owner of this blog, EDI, who has given me the chance to share with the world again.

I'm here to talk about men.
Yes, I am. I shall tell you what I really think about them. On second thought, this is what most women think about men.

So this is a question for the girls/women out there.
How often do you ask yourself, "Are all men the same"? Real often, yeah? Yes, that's what all men make women think of them. They can be nice, they can be amazing. But in the end they all make you feel like a piece of doggy doo. Well, most men respect women. But what about the others? Don't think so. I've seen, men do all nasty things that girls hate. They cheat, they lie, they make you feel unimportant, and then they look around for something better. They're the ones who have their eyes on different butts, but they stop you for everything. They're over-possessive; they're idiotic most of the times.
They claim they care, but all they want is you to be all theirs. They want you to be happy, but they're the ones who bring sorrow along. They commit mistakes; they put the blame on you. How does their brain work? Are pussies, drugs, boobs, legs and bums so important? Well, yes, that’s what their worlds are all about.
I don't mean to offend any guy here. But this is what a girl’s point of view is.

But, then comes the nicer side to them.
When they make you feel amazing, when they make you feel like you're the prettiest girl on this planet, when they plan awesome things and make sure you're happy. When they remember little things that make you want to smile. When they make you feel important. When they get you gifts. Just everything that they do to makes you feel on top of the world.

Some people can really turn your life upside down, right? I met a person like that recently. I was a prisoner before I met him. I had a guy in my life that would make me feel suffocated, destroyed, guilty, regretful, and unreal. He would want me all to himself. And in order to do that, he made me cut off from everyone that I was connected to. He would insult me publicly, he would push me around like I was his property, and he would humiliate me till I felt like I was really nothing but a piece of trash. He would never understand the problems I had besides him manipulating my life.
Anyway, fuck him, guys like him, really don't deserve love or any kind of respect or even a long enough mention in a blog post.
The best I can think of doing to him is, chop his balls off and then after a while cut his thingy off.
Yeah, then he would learn how to respect women and how to treat them..
And the worst part, dudes do horrible things like this and claim that they "love you".
I mean.. how is someone who is getting so humiliated all the time supposed to believe that ?
Being immature is one thing and being violent another.
Well, I wish he goes and rots in hell for whatever he’s made ME go through.. And I know there are girls all around the world who have abusive boyfriends like him.
Really. Husbands beat their wife’s up too. So before you get into that, just avoid having people like that in your life.

I regret it, yet I've learnt.

But now that I've met this person who is completely the opposite of what my ex boyfriend was, I've started to feel I'm getting what I deserve.
I think I need a little respect and love, after going through all that bullcrap in the past.
I just want girls who are vulnerable, easy to be aware.
Cause its a mans world out there. You just got to find who is wrong and who is right.
Trust me, claim a guy to be your bestetststs Friend in the world, He might just be the one to trick you into a relationship that is just perfect from the outside. And he'd be the one to hurt you the most, because he’s aware of all your weaknesses and strengths.

Never go out with your best friend.. Consider it a SIN, aite?

I guess I said what I had to.
I feel relieved to have overcome my past, and to have stepped into a brighter present :)

I hope it all goes well with all of you there.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aw, what you wrote spoke to me. :)
I really liked it for the sole reason that you were really honest about your experience.
Dont EVER think that you need to be with a stupid guy like that eveer again.
YOURE AWESOME and if you think youre anything else, then let me just put it this way-youre wrong.
:)
*hugs*

Tanmaya said...

Thanks a lot for appreciating :)
And haha, I think I've learnt my lesson here.

Thanks again. :)